On Thursday, November 8, a couple hundred of the best Seattle wedding vendors and the most spirited engaged couples will gather at the downtown Four Seasons for Get Hitched Give Hope. (Tickets are now available only at the door, and it will likely sell out so don't dally.)

With the R74 marriage equality victory (!!!), tomorrow night's party is really, really going to be a celebration, and for some, the question now is, "What am I going to wear?"

This whole Dress Code thing has taken on a life of it's own. I got the message loud and clear, guys. You don't just want to talk conceptually about what people are going to wear, you want to walk into their closets and see it.

Okay. Here goes ...